My Favorite Mistake: Learning Without Blame in Business and Leadership
My Favorite Mistake is a podcast about learning without blame in business and leadership.
Despite the name, it’s not just my favorite mistake—it’s yours, it’s ours, and it’s what we can all learn from when things don’t go as planned.
Hosted by author and consultant Mark Graban, each episode features honest conversations with leaders, executives, entrepreneurs, and changemakers about a meaningful mistake they made—and what they learned after things went wrong. How they responded. How they improved. How they grew as leaders.
This isn’t a show about failure theater, gotcha moments, or simplistic “lessons learned.” It’s about how real people reflect, improve, and lead better in complex organizations—without scapegoating, shame, or hindsight bias.
What You’ll Hear
• Leadership and management mistakes that reshaped careers, teams, and organizations
• How teams and leaders learn without blaming individuals
• Insights about culture, systems, decision-making, and psychological safety
• Practical lessons drawn from real experience, not abstract theory
Guests come from business, healthcare, technology, sports, entertainment, government, and academia, sharing stories that reveal how learning actually happens.
The Perspective
Mark brings a systems-thinking lens grounded in Lean management, continuous improvement, and psychological safety. The focus is less on who messed up and more on what the system taught us.
Who This Podcast Is For
• Leaders and managers who want to learn from mistakes without blame
• Executives working to build healthier, more resilient cultures
• Professionals who believe improvement starts with reflection, not punishment
My Favorite Mistake: Learning Without Blame in Business and Leadership
Episodes

Tuesday Oct 06, 2020
Being the Last to Know, Professionally or Personally with Matt Granados
Tuesday Oct 06, 2020
Tuesday Oct 06, 2020
Consultant, coach, speaker, CEO
Show notes: https://www.markgraban.com/mistake7
My guest for Episode #7 is Matt Granados, the cofounder of LifePulse, Inc., a consulting, coaching, and speaking organization. He is also the author of the recently-released book, Motivate The Unmotivated: The Proven System for Sustainable Motivation. He and his wife also have a podcast called REALationship.
Today, Matt shares some examples of similar mistakes from his professional life and his personal life — being the last to know about something major or not paying attention to the things that matter. We also talk about common mistakes that are made when leaders try to motivate others in the workplace.
Visit his website for a special offer for podcast listeners.
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Thursday Oct 01, 2020
Communicating a Difficult Fact to a Client with Brenda Batista
Thursday Oct 01, 2020
Thursday Oct 01, 2020
Consultant, entrepreneur, engineer, attorney, Black Belt
Show notes: https://www.markgraban.com/mistake6
Joining me for Episode #6 is Brenda Batista, the president of her firm Inspiring Company Culture. She's an engineer and an attorney — she's a management consultant and an entrepreneur. And, today, she's sharing her “favorite mistake” from her time as a consultant.
Brenda shares a story about giving a factual piece of information to a client… and why the way she delivered the message was a mistake that created many learning opportunities on many levels. We'll also talk about how she helps leaders create inspiring company cultures and high performing teams.
Brenda is a certified Six Sigma Black Belt, Project Management Professional, and 5 Voices System certified trainer. Over the past 25 years, she has been at the helm of many high performing teams dedicated to performance improvement. Brenda has managed complex multi-million dollar client accounts, created computer simulations to predict business performance, and established a scalable consulting methodology for start-ups and established businesses.
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Sunday Sep 27, 2020
Sunday Sep 27, 2020
What happens when a leader compromises the standard—even with good intentions?
In Episode #5 of My Favorite Mistake, Billy Ray Taylor, a retired Goodyear executive and founder of LinkedXL, shares a formative mistake from early in his leadership career: allowing small deviations from standards in the name of being liked and fitting in.
Show notes with links and more
That choice nearly derailed his effectiveness as a leader—until a blunt wake-up call from a mentor changed everything.
Billy explains why what you accept becomes the culture, how inconsistent standards erode trust and safety, and why accountability must be clear, fair, and unwavering. He also shares how strong standards can coexist with psychological safety—and actually enable learning from mistakes rather than blame.
This episode is packed with practical lessons for leaders in operations, manufacturing, healthcare, and any environment where standards, safety, and performance matter.
Key topics include:
Why compromising standards is a hidden leadership mistake
“What you accept, you cannot change” — and why it matters
How leaders unintentionally teach the wrong behaviors
The relationship between standards, culture, and accountability
Creating psychological safety without lowering expectations
Why leaders must model standards consistently
If you’re responsible for people, processes, or performance, this conversation will challenge how you think about leadership—and what you’re willing to tolerate.

Tuesday Sep 22, 2020
When Clients Reject the Work: A Consulting Mistake with Jim Benson
Tuesday Sep 22, 2020
Tuesday Sep 22, 2020
Consultant, author, "Personal Kanban" expert
Notes: http://www.markgraban.com/mistake4
My guest for Episode #4 is Jim Benson, the creator of the "Personal Kanban" method and an expert making work flow and decisions easy. He is the CEO of Modus Cooperandi and is a Founding Partner in Modus Institute. And, he's co-creator of the "Lean Coffee" meeting format.
Today, Jim shares a story about working his mistakes and assumptions that he made when working with a large telecom / communications clients that had thrown out the new cross-functional way of working that Jim had helped them put in place. It's a mistake that was humbling to Jim and a mistake that he cheerfully learned from.
Jim is co-author of the book Personal Kanban: Mapping Work | Navigating Life. You can find him on Twitter as @ourfounder.
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Monday Sep 14, 2020
A Lost Suitcase, Kind Leadership, and Learning to Be Present | Karyn Ross
Monday Sep 14, 2020
Monday Sep 14, 2020
Author and consultant, entrepreneur, kindness enthusiast
Show notes: http://www.markgraban.com/mistake3
Joining me for Episode #3 is Karyn Ross, an author and consultant who also works in my field of the “Lean” management system. Today, Karyn will discuss her favorite travel-related mistake and what she learned. We'll also talk about how we can be kind in our coaching of others (and how we can be kind toward ourselves when we make mistakes).
Her books:
The Toyota Way to Service Excellence: Lean Transformation in Service Organizations
How to Coach for Creativity and Service Excellence: A Lean Coaching Workbook.
Think Kindly – Speak Kindly – Act Kindly: 366 Easy and Free Ideas You Can Use to Create a Kinder World…Starting Today!
Big Karma and Little Kosmo Help Each Other
Karyn signed a deal with a publisher for a new book, The Kind Leader -- available now
Please check out Karyn's non-profit, The Love and Kindness Project Foundation.
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Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Campaign Mistakes, CIA Training, and Leadership Lessons with Will Hurd
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Republican Representative from Texas
Show notes: https://www.markgraban.com/mistake2
My guest for Episode #2 is not currently a business leader, but he is going back into the private sector in January 2021. He is Congressman Will Hurd, a Republican representing Texas’s 23rd Congressional District.
Hurd was student body president at Texas A&M University, he served as a CIA undercover operations officer including stints in the field in Afghanistan, Pakistan, and India. After working for a cybersecurity company, he was elected to the House in 2014.
Today, the Congressman talks about his “favorite mistake,” which includes his lessons learned from running and losing his first election in a runoff. We'll also hear about his experiences in the CIA and how they focus on training — and executing the mundane tasks perfectly — as a way to prevent bigger, catastrophic mistakes.
Update March 2022: Hurd is now the author of the book American Reboot: An Idealist's Guide to Getting Big Things Done.
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Wednesday Sep 02, 2020
One Shark and Two Mentors: Kevin Harrington and Mark Timm on Mistakes and Mentorship
Wednesday Sep 02, 2020
Wednesday Sep 02, 2020
Kevin Harrington from "Shark Tank," Mark Timm from many entrepreneurial ventures, co-authors
Episode web page: http://www.markgraban.com/mistake1
I'm really excited that my guests for the inaugural episode of the “My Favorite Mistake” podcast are Kevin Harrington and Mark Timm, co-authors of the new book Mentor to Millions: Secrets of Success in Business, Relationships, and Beyond.
You probably know Kevin as one of the original “sharks” on the hit TV program “Shark Tank.” He's the creator of the infomercial, pioneer of the “As Seen on TV industry,” and co-founding board member of the Entrepreneur’s Organization (EO), founded in 1987.
Mark Timm has been a serial entrepreneur and exponential-thinking practitioner for almost three decades. He has started more than a dozen companies, several of which have multiplied and been sold. He has spoken professionally for more than 25 years, giving thousands of speeches to over a million people around the globe.
In today's episode, they both open up about their “favorite mistake” and what they learned from that. They'll also share stories about Kevin mentoring Mark and others and some common mistakes that can be made in a mentoring relationship.
If you're interested in the book, be sure to check out their website. I am also running a giveaway contest, via my blog, where you can enter to win one of two copies of the book.
At the end of the episode, Mark and Kevin share a special offer related to some extra materials that you can get, for free, when you buy the book.
Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast -- that helps others find this content and you'll be sure to get future episodes as they are released weekly. Support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/favorite-mistake/support.
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Monday Aug 10, 2020
Trailer: ”My Favorite Mistake” (2023)
Monday Aug 10, 2020
Monday Aug 10, 2020
http://myfavoritemistakepodcast.com/
I hope you'll enjoy listening to My Favorite Mistake, published weekly. Please subscribe, rate, and review!
And please check out my new book, The Mistakes That Make Us: Cultivating a Culture of Learning and Innovation.
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About Mark Graban
Mark Graban is an author, speaker, and consultant, whose latest book, The Mistakes That Make Us: Cultivating a Culture of Learning and Innovation, is available now.
He is also the author of the award-winning book Lean Hospitals: Improving Quality, Patient Safety, and Employee Engagement and others, including Measures of Success: React Less, Lead Better, Improve More.
He serves as a consultant through his company, Constancy, Inc, and is also a Senior Advisor for the technology company KaiNexus.
Mark hosts podcasts, including “Lean Blog Interviews” and “My Favorite Mistake.”
Education: B.S. in Industrial Engineering from Northwestern University; M.S. in Mechanical Engineering, and M.B.A. from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology’s Leaders for Global Operations Program.









